EDGES MAGAZINE Issue

April 2000

  KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK  
  Denis passed through our office recently. Last year he came to us with a drink problem and he was homeless. We managed to provide him with an opportunity to deal with his addiction. He shares the following:

:Last year I went through the Reconcile Project at St. Anne's House. I came with an alcohol addiction. Then I went on to a 'dry-house' in Manchester. In November, I came back to live with my family in Blackburn. So far, things are going well. It's so good because now my family are so proud of me. My mum is so happy about how well I have done.

When I first came to St. Anne's, things were bad between me and my family. The project helped me get my life together and see things differently. It helped me to understand myself more; to get more confidence in myself. Now I find it so much easier approaching people, talking to them and being around them. I no longer shy away from them.

In Manchester, I was sharing the 'dry-house' with fourteen other lads who had been in the same situation. They had come from many different places and backgrounds. As we understood each other, we were very supportive. The rules were simple – no alcohol. Basically, you felt that if you did, you would not only be letting yourself down but all the others too. There were meetings twice a week and the responsibility for the house itself was shared.

Now, I look at alcohol differently. When I think about it now, I remember what it used to do to me. Now, I feel a lot better about myself and my family are so pleased. It's ten years at least , since things were this good. I'm still working on plans for the future. In the next ten years I hope to have a partner, family and a job.

When I first came to the Reconcile Project I never dreamt that I would come this far and be like I am now. Everyone was so kind and patient and supportive. Without the support I'd still be homeless and drinking. At first I was unsure but then I realised people really wanted to help. I found, you have to want help, you have to realise that you need it.

I feel I have a lot of experience to offer and I am very grateful for my second chance at life. So I am now going to be a volunteer at the Drop-In Centre. It helps when you really know what others are going through


Denis  

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