The Hyder Family

Abraham Hyder

Born: 1876

Died: 1876

Father: Thomas Hyder (1857)

Mother: Elizabeth Crabb (1855)

Alice Ellen Hyder

Born: 1844

Died: 1885

Father: Thomas Hyder (1857)

Mother: Elizabeth Crabb (1855)

Alice Ellen Hyder

Born: 23/4/1887

Died: 28/5/1981

Father: Thomas Hyder (1857)

Mother: Elizabeth Crabb (1855)

Married: John Verrier

Children: Dorothy and Joan

Anne Hyder

Born: 1866

Died: before 1851

Father: James Hyder

Mother: Ann Patterson

Annie Hyder

Born: 1872 probably 19/10/1872 as Mary Ann Crabb in Croydon Workhouse Infirmary (birth certificate - see below)

Died: unknown

Father: Probably unknown and adopted by Thomas Paterson Hyder (1857) who was given as her father on her marriage certificate.

Mother: Eliza Crabb (1850-1923)

Married: Henry Hamilton Doughty (b. 1866) on 3/11/1890 in St Philips Camberwell

Children: Children: Eleanor Marion (Nell) (1898), Ernest (1901-1975), Gladys May (Lilly), Harold (1903-1975) & John (Jack)

Born in Croydon, lived at 9 Norfolk Terrace Camberwell in 1881

Evidence For thinking she was born as Mary Ann Crabb

1. What I have been told. He called himself Thomas Patterson Hyder.  Patterson was his mother's maiden name and my father thought that she was probably Scottish.  They were married in Croydon and Eliza had been born there.  He came from Chatham.  Their youngest child Alice refused to tell her children anything about her parent’s background when they were starting to trace their family history.
2. Their gravestone in Brockley Cemetery. Thomas P Hyder September 3rd 1912 in his 55th year, Eliza his wife May 8th 1923 aged 65, also of James T Hyder March 12th 1941 aged 61, also Alice Ellen Verrier daughter of Eliza and Thomas 28th May 1981 aged 94
3. Census information. 1881 Thomas Hyder age 24 born Chatham, Elizabeth Hyder age 26 born Croydon, Annie Hyder age 8 born Croydon, James Hyder age 1 born Camberwell.  1891 not traced yet.  1901 Thomas Hyder age 44, Elizabeth Hyder age 44, William Hyder age 19 born Camberwell, Alice Hyder age 13 born Camberwell
4. Search for marriage certificate.  The only marriage in Croydon between a Thomas Hyder and Eliza (Elizabeth) Crabb - February 7th 1875, Thomas Paterson Hyder, 21, bachelor, clerk, Croydon, father James Hyder,
licenced victualler.  Eliza Crabb, 22, spinster, Croydon, father John Crabb, boot maker.
5. When were they born? Thomas between 1853/4 (from marriage certificate) and 1856/7 (census and gravestone).  Eliza between 1852/3 (from marriage certificate), 1854/5 (from 1881 census), 1856/7 (from 1901 census) and 1857/8 (from gravestone).
6. Birth certificate - Thomas.  16th November 1857, Queen Street, Chatham.  Father James Hyder, journeyman boot maker, mother Ann Hyder formerly Pattison.  Census information confirms the details and his father ran a beer house.  Age does not match marriage certificate but ties in with later information.
7. Birth certificate - Eliza.  The only Eliza Crabb, in the indexes, born in Croydon.  20th May 1850, King Street, Croydon.  Father William Crabb, servant, mother Patience Crabb formerly Pettifer.  Father's details and her age do not match marriage certificate.
8. Supplementary evidence from censuses and directories to support the fact that this is the correct Eliza Crabb.  1851 Census. 5 King Street, Croydon - Patience Ann Crabb, mar, 34, Eating House keeper, Barrington, Glouc. William, son, 8, Croydon, Jane, dau, 3, Croydon, Eliza, dau, 10 months, Croydon.  1861 Census. Dog and Bull Yard, Surrey Street, Croydon - Patience Crabb, mar, 43, charwoman, Barrington, Glouc. Eliza, dau, 10, Croydon, John, son, 7, Croydon.  1871 Eliza is at 4 Dog and Bull Yard aged 20.  1876 Croydon directory - Thomas Hyder Dog and Bull Yard, Surrey Street.
9. Birth of first child after marriage.  30th October 1875, 3 Dog and Bull Yard, Surrey Street, Croydon, Beatrice Eleanor, father Thomas Hyder, waiter, mother Eliza Hyder formerly Crabb.  The baby died in 1876.
10. Annie Hyder.  On 1881 census age 8 born Croydon.  Date of birth 1872/3.  No entries for Ann/Anne/Annie Hyder or Crabb in indexes.  From another 1851 census entry in Croydon it is possible that Eliza had a sister Mary Ann, so indexes checked for Mary Ann Hyder or Crabb.  19th October 1872, Workhouse infirmary, Croydon, Mary Ann, mother Eliza Crabb

Beatrice Eleanor Hyder

Born: 30/10/1875

Died: 1876

Father: Thomas Hyder (1857)

Mother: Elizabeth Crabb (1855)

Cassandra Hyder

Born: 1854

Father: James Hyder

Mother: Ann Patterson

Catherine Ann Hyder

Born: 1850

Died: before 1861

Father: James Hyder

Mother: Ann Patterson

Dorothy Joyce Hyder

Born: 1914

Father: William John Hyder (1882)

Mother: Alice Leeves

Edith Lillian Hyder

Born: 1918

Father: William John Hyder (1882)

Mother: Alice Leeves

Eliza Emma Hyder

Born: 1845

Died: 1845

Father: James Hyder  (1823)

Mother: Jane Filmer

Eliza Margaret Hyder

Born: 1847

Died: 1847

Father: James Hyder  (1823)

Mother: Jane Filmer

Florence May Hyder

Born: 1889

Father: Thomas Hyder (1857)

Mother: Elizabeth Crabb (1855)

Frederick Alonzo Hyder

Born: 1844

Died: 1844

Father: James Hyder  (1823)

Mother: Jane Filmer

Gillian Hyder

Born: 9/4/1946

Father: Thomas Richard Hyder (1912)

Mother: Winifred Willats in 1943

Occupation: Librarian

 

Gill Hyder (center) with John Rogers and Wendy Rogers (nee Clay) on a visit to Ladywell Cemetry on 8/6/2003

 

 

 

 

 

Jane Sarah Hyder

Born: 1843

Father: James Hyder  (1823)

Mother: Jane Filmer

James Hyder

Baptised: 19/10/1823 in Charing. Kent

Died: 9/4/1865 in Chatham Kent of typhus fever

Father: unknown

Mother: unknown

Married: Jane Filmer (died 1847) on 21/3/1842 in Chatham, Kent

Children: Jane Sarah (1843), Frederick Alonzo (1844-1844), Eliza Emma (1845-1845) and Eliza Margaret (1847-1847)

Married: Ann Pattison 11/6/1848 in Bethnal Green

Children: Richard James (1849), Catherine Ann (1850), Richard Pattison (1852), Cassandra (1854), Thomas (1857), James (1859), James Harry (1861), Frederick George (1863) and (possibly) Anne (1866)

James Hyder

Born: 1859

Died: before 1861

Father: James Hyder

Mother: Ann Patterson

James Harry Hyder

Born: 1861

Died: 1876

Father: James Hyder

Mother: Ann Patterson

James Henry Hyder

Born: 1877

Died: 1879

Father: Thomas Hyder (1857)

Mother: Elizabeth Crabb (1855)

James Thomas Hyder

Born: 1879

Died: 12/3/1941

Father: Thomas Hyder (1857)

Mother: Elizabeth Crabb (1855)

Born Camberwell, lived at 9 Norfolk Terrace Camberwell in 1881

Richard James Hyder

Born: 1849

Died: before 1851

Father: James Hyder

Mother: Ann Patterson

Richard Pattison Hyder

Born: 1852

Father: James Hyder

Mother: Ann Patterson

Thomas (Pattison) Hyder

Born: 16/11/1857

Died: 3/9/1912

Father: James Hyder

Mother: Ann Patterson

Married: Elizabeth Crabb (1850-1923) on 7/2/1875 in Croydon

Probably adopted children: Annie (1872)

Children: Beatrice Eleanor (30/10/1875-1876), Abraham (1876-1876), James Henry (1877-1879), James Thomas (1879-1941) Alice Ellen (1884-1985), Alice Ellen (1887-1981) and Florence May (1889)

Occupation: Railway Clerk

Born Chatham, Kent, lived at 9 Norfolk Terrace Camberwell in 1881

 

The grave of Thomas and his wife Eliza, son James Thomas and daughter Alice Ellen

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thomas Richard Hyder

Born: 1912

Father: William John Hyder (1882)

Mother: Alice Leeves

Married: Winifred Willats in 1943

Children: Gillian (1946)

William John Hyder

Born: 8/3/1882

Died: 27/9/1939

Father: Thomas Hyder (1857)

Mother: Elizabeth Crabb (1855)

Married: Alice Leeves in 1910

Children: Thomas Richard (1912), Dorothy Joyce (1914), Edith Lillian (1918) and a twin of Lillian died at birth

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