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EDGES MAGAZINE Issue
22 |
July 2000 |
I CAUGHT MY WIFE WITH ANOTHER MAN |
I have been homeless for the last three years.
I found my best friend with my wife one Saturday morning.I dragged him
down the stairs and beat him senseless.I got a knife and put it through a car
tyre and said that next time it would be his head,then walked away and never
went back again.Since then I have travelled all over the country.
My
wife and I had been very lucky. My Nan had died and left us a lot of mone y. We
bought a derelict house. The only way to do it up was if we both worked.I
worked for a bakery. I did sixteen hours a day and then came home to work on
the house . The house has all been renovated.
I have a small boy aged
11 and I go to see him once a month.My sister picks him up from my ex-wife and
I go to spend the day at her house. I do speak to him e very Saturday because
he has a mobile phone which I bought.
I have never claimed a days
social in the three years Ive been on the streets,Ive done a few
days work here and there. Thats how I survive.
I drink as much as
I can afford that day because it blocks out the pain.
I have a lot of
friends in London.I can walk down the street during the day and say hello to
hundred and fifty people. If I disappear for two or three days when I come back
they all want to know where I have been.When I go to see my little boy they all
ask how he was.
I would like to get out of this situation.But how? I
need to get myself out of the state Im in.Once upon a time I would never
drink at all.It simply just hides the pains.It blocks out everything else and
thats what you do e very day. Some people might find that hard to
understand.You can go in to hostels but the streets are a safer and cleaner
place. I can got to The Passage, get showered, theres a lady there that
washes my clothes,I can clean my teeth and buy a meal from the money that
Ive begged. If Ive been lucky enough to do a couple of days work
then I dont have to beg.I have seen people here who dont want to be
clean.I want to be normal still, even though I dont live normal I still
want to look normal.Ive still got a little bit of dignity left.If I
turned up to church on Sunday looking like some people the congregation would
wonder whats the matter. I go to a church not far from here and the
priest knows where I come from but the congregation dont.They think
Im a normal person.
At the moment I am suffering from chest
infection.Im now on my second course of antibiotics.. You are still
getting night where its still cold. I only have one blanket because if
you cant carry your stuff with you and you leave it somewhere it
wont be there that night.I dont often sleep in the same place two
nights on the trot. The brown bag I carry with me is my home .
I have
seen a lot of people going into the rehabilitation units and then they are just
chucked back out on the street again. They are not helped to find anywhere to
live and they go back out on to the street and straight back on to the
drink,and some of them do even worse. Yes, I would like to get help for my
problems. With the help in London people come off the drink for a few
days.There is no support when you come back out. You need to be homed. From
there you can look for work but without a home your not going to find work. An
employer will not take anybody on whose homeless.Its a vicious cycle
because without permanent employment I cant get a permanent address,and
without a permanent address I cant get permanent employment.
At
this time of year half of the hostels are shut down,so you cant get into
a normal hostel anyway. I was offered a place in one and I would not go into
it.I would rather sleep on the streets.
I have drunk myself unconscious
once and fell down in the middle of the road.I was very lucky, the police
picked me up and put me into a cell for the night. They woke me up in the
morning with some breakfast and it was explain to me how I got there. I was
picked up for my own protection.
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