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EDGES MAGAZINE Issue
23 |
October
2000 |
FROM CHILDREN'S HOME TO THE STREET
My name is John
and Im twenty one. I was born in Preston. I have had a hard life. My dad
died three years ago, my little brother has died from drugs and I was brought
up in a childrens home for six years. When I left the childrens
home I went home and stayed there for about two months, but I left when I was
sixteen. Since then I have just been living on the streets, bed-sits and
everything. Thats when I got into drugs. Life has just been upside down
since then.
My brother died from heroin. He died two years ago in this
bed-sit where he was and he was injecting heroin at the time. Apparently, the
stuff that he had bought wasnt heroin, it was poison. He was eighteen
years old. He got hooked on heroin when he was sixteen because the people he
was hanging around with were hooked on it and they forced him into it. They
just got into his head and the next minute he was addicted. Its just one
of those things that happens, he could have said no but he didnt. He
robbed my mums house, he robbed my nans house, he robbed me and
more or less everyone else in the family. At the end of the day hes your
brother so you just have to forgive him, you love him so theres nothing
else you can do. I was in Preston, Fox Street at the time trying to sort my own
life out. I got a phone call saying that he had died off my mum, so I was
really gutted. Nothing will bring him back now, its happened and
its in the past so you just have to get on with your life. Its
hard, its really hard.
I went into a childrens home for a
number of reasons. I was a little trouble maker at home, I stole my mums
car when I was nine years old, I set a caravan on fire, Ive robbed shops
and it was just my attitude as well. They just couldnt cope, so
thats why they sent me into a childrens home when I was ten. I
dont know why I did these things but the main thing was probably for
attention. The thing was that my little brother and one of my older brothers
was getting more time than I was. I had to suffer for it by going to a
childrens home and the only time I was allowed home was at the weekend,
once a fortnight, and at the school holidays. In a way I was glad I got sent
there because it actually changed me a bit. There was so many things to do, you
had canoeing, rock climbing, fell-walking, ski-ing and all those types of
things. It did help a bit but when I left there and as soon as I went home it
all started again. Thats when I left and I got in with the wrong people
and started on drugs. I cant turn back the clock now. I can just look to
the future, if I have one, which hopefully I will have.
Ive been
homeless, beaten up and robbed. Ive lived in bins, bed-sits, bushes, up
in a tree, sheds and anywhere like that, where I can find any shelter. Like
last night I got kicked out of this friends house so I had to stay somewhere. I
laid some cardboards down on some concrete and slept on that. It was awful. I
got roughly two hours sleep altogether. I dont want to do that again but
its getting worse, theres nothing I can do.
The most
frightening experience that Ive had on the street would have to be when I
was asleep and someone came up to me with a knife, took my money off me and
then took my trainers. I was just really scared at the time. Since then
Ive carried knives or something on me but for the last year I
havent bothered.
I would like to get off the drugs but the thing
I wanted to do most for some time is voluntary work, helping younger kids to
understand what drugs are about.
In the past I have been into hospital
because of some of the things Ive done but I was suffering from
depression and suicidalness. At the time, this didnt work. I was just
going in and out of hospital. The staff just used to talk about it but just
talking about it doesnt do much good, it just makes it worse.
I
heard about the T.H.O.M.A.S. Organisation from a friend of mine who was
addicted to heroin. At the moment he is doing very well, hes on the
Reconcile Project and has got off it. He is doing really well for himself now.
I would like to try it for myself to see if I can get myself off it.
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