But if this is ‘success’, is everything
else ‘failure’?
This typical picture of a ‘successful’
church is often a dangerous illusion, for its ‘success’ usually owes little
to the Holy Spirit. Instead it is more likely to be a man-made sham: the product
of a particular style of leadership (the clergyman impresario whose own dynamic
energy makes everything ‘hum’) or a reflection of the kind of society in
which the church is set.
For, in the absence of ‘impresario’
leadership (which is growing increasingly rare), these ‘successful’ churches
have almost always been found in the suburbs or in small towns, where human
beings are thought of primarily as residential creatures in isolated family
units, and where people are happy to make some now rather outdated middle-class
assumptions about such things as property, privacy, education, family, work,
leadership etc.
The evidence for this lies in the balance of
what is provided in the typically ‘successful’ church. Traditionally most
activity has centred round the women and children - with a more recent emphasis
on the elderly - mainly meeting their social needs at a fairly superficial level
(discos for the youngsters and flower-arranging demonstrations at the women’s
meetings). Most of the men who are involved in the life of this kind of
church (a small number compared with the number of women) tend to be those who
need to be ‘big fish in little ponds’, people who find fulfilment by taking
limited responsibility and power within a suitably protected environment.
But what a false measure of success this
proves to be when set against our calling to be a holy, catholic and apostolic
church as we explored it in the last chapter!
This kind of success is gained largely at the
expense of the true mission of Christ’s Church in the world - for one simple
reason: it is a success measured by the extent to which the local church can
provide escape from the world.
The joyful worship, the financially secure
institution, the lively social scene and the happy family atmosphere combine to
provide for people a substitute world, a 'comfort zone', in which to live and
feel safe - the very reverse of the vulnerable and challenging ‘alternative
society’ that the Christian Church should be in the world.
This illusion of success involves a deliberate
attempt to break that network of contact with the locality through which God’s
love is expressed; and many on the outside of church life can see this more
clearly than most churchgoers.
In a ‘tribalised’ if not totally
fragmented society, people may well take it for granted that the church will
function in this way. But more serious than this general presumption of
irrelevance is the fact that the ‘institutional church’ is then often
despised or ignored by those whose problems and sensitivities run deep. They can
see that the human predicament needs the healing love of God in a much more
complex and wider setting than that catered for within the cosy, trivialising
and escapist lifestyle of many local churches!
No wonder many ‘parish missions’, ‘diocesan
jubilee celebrations’ and all the rest, can be such a dangerous waste of
energy - for they tend only to strengthen the spurious success of the ‘successful’
churches and do nothing for those churches and congregations where the problems
of the future are real, clearly recognised, and very probably held in common
with others in the locality.
Charismatic churches would argue that theirs
is an experience of ‘success’ based on different criteria - namely their
awareness of the work of the Holy Spirit.
In practice, however, too many of these
churches respond to their experience of the Holy Spirit in ways which are
essentially self-indulgent for the individual and sometimes border on the
irrational.
The result is even more escapist and
inaccessible to those who rightly are not prepared to retreat into a world of
alleged objective ‘certainties’ (about God or anything else) where all their
thinking is done for them.
Too often these churches also depend far more
than they would like to admit on the personality of their leaders. No wonder
they so often hit problems after their original leaders have left.
The illusory nature of this suburban model of
success is proved by the fact that it is already failing. As the years have
passed many of these ‘happy family’ churches have - almost unnoticed - grown
old, and what was a lively family church has become a church full of pensioners.
The irony is that, following the dynamics of ‘tribalism’, there is little
likelihood that these churches will die of old age. Instead they will perpetuate
themselves as people join them after they have retired.
So-called ‘bowls-club churches’ in many
seaside towns thrive simply because of a never-ending supply of retired people
moving in to the locality - the same people who also ensure the success of the
bowls club!
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